Explaining Death to Little Ones: Word-for-Word Scripts
When Your Child Asks the Hardest Questions, Will You Know What to Say?
Dear Parent or Caregiver,
Hi, I'm Patricia Findlay. My experience with grief started many years ago when my 4 year-old was diagnosed with leukemia and died died after a 6 year battle. Not long after, my husband also died of a heart attack, so I had to find the right words to help my surviving younger children understand death. Because of our frequent stays in hospital, the Ward Sister began asking me to support other families facing similar conversations. That unexpected role - born from circumstance, refined through tremendous loss, and strengthened by counselling studies - taught me what truly helps children process death. This guide contains the words I've shared with countless families over the decades.
"Explaining Death to Little Ones: Word-for-Word Scripts" is an essential resource designed to help adults navigate these difficult conversations with confidence and compassion.
What Makes This Resource Unlike Any Other
Most books about children and death are filled with theory but light on practical guidance. They tell you what children understand at different ages, but not exactly what to say in the moment.
"Explaining Death to Little Ones" is different:
Listed are the most effective, developmentally appropriate language into simple scripts you can use immediately when tragedy strikes. Whether it's a pet, a grandparent, a community tragedy, or difficult news on TV, you'll never again be left searching for words.
- Immediate Usability - Open and use within minutes of a crisis, with color-coded sections for different scenarios
- Evidence-Based Approach - Every script is grounded in child development research and validated by experts
- Trauma-Informed - Sensitive to psychological impact and designed to reduce confusion and fear
- Culturally Adaptable - Flexible frameworks that respect diverse beliefs about death and afterlife
- Complete System - Guides you from the first conversation through ongoing support as questions continue
- Repeatedly Useful - A resource you'll return to multiple times throughout your child's development
Why Trust This Guide?
Patricia Findlay brings:
✓ Personal experience as a bereaved parent
✓ Many hours counseling families in pediatric hospital settings
✓ First-hand knowledge of what helps (and harms) grieving children
✓ Deep understanding that children deserve honest, dignified explanations
"The ward Sister regularly asked me to talk to other parents... she said I was understanding and sensible."
What's Included in Your Guide:
- Word-for-Word Scripts for ages 2-4, 5-8, and 9-12
- Scenario-Specific Guidance for pets, family members, community tragedies, and more
- Follow-Up Conversation Frameworks to address ongoing questions
- Red Flag Checklist to identify when professional help might be needed
- Belief-Neutral Options that work for families of all faiths or no faith
- Quick-Reference Cards to keep in your wallet for unexpected moments
A Small Investment in Your Child's Emotional Wellbeing
For just $12, you'll gain immediate access to this comprehensive resource that you'll use repeatedly throughout your parenting journey. Consider the alternative:
- The cost of therapy sessions to address unresolved grief ($150+ per session)
- The emotional burden of feeling unprepared in crucial moments
- The lasting impact of confusing explanations on a child's understanding of death
Download Now and Be Prepared, Not Scared
Don't wait until you're in the middle of a crisis to figure out what to say. Download "Explaining Death to Little Ones: Word-for-Word Scripts" today and gain the confidence to handle these difficult conversations with grace and wisdom.
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With compassion and support,
Patricia L. Findlay
Dip. Prof. Couns. MAIPC QMACA
P.S. Death is an inevitable part of life, and your child will encounter it - whether through a pet goldfish, a grandmother's passing, or news of a tragedy. The question isn't if you'll need to explain death, but when. Be ready with the right words when that moment comes. Download now for immediate access.
P.P.S. Many parents have shared that simply having this resource on hand gives them peace of mind. Even if you don't need it today, you'll feel better knowing it's there when you do.